Fire with fire

Recapping the year and all that sort of jazz. So trite, I know. But I do want to blog fairly frequently – hopefully not always something so trite.

  1. I lost the woman who came closest to being a grand-mom to me.
  2. I went on a trip and came back completely in love with the light of my life.
  3. I decided to bother even less about people than I did. And I continue to live by that decision.
  4. I asked a man I love more than anything in this life if I could have his child.
  5. I went out for a date escorted by three men who are crazy about me. 🙂 I kept house for a week for three men and surprised myself with my OCD to keep things clean, my insistence that they eat healthy, drink less coffee. I basically behaved like the perfect wife and shocked myself senseless.
  6. I started French classes, swimming lessons, and got myself a tattoo with a design I’ve dreamed of for over 9 years.
  7. My heart broke three times in 2010 thanks to three men who will always break me, hold me, and make me – over and over again. And I’m so grateful.
  8. I fell deeper in love with the men and women already in my life. I made new friends I’m crazy about.
  9. I went to the US again but this time came back with the memories and lasting friendship of a writer friend and her lovely husband.
  10. I lost my job. I am finally on a break. After 11 years, I am no longer thinking of what task to complete next, which place to go next, where my next meal will come from, if my working-from-home will affect a company or my job security. (And if you are wondering, no, it doesn’t.)
  11. I handled a quasi-break-up with a great deal of dignity and poise even as I yelled at the guy. And we are still friends.
  12. I re-read books that re-shaped my life. I’ve been writing – rubbish, brilliant stuff, funny stuff. I mixed two of my great loves on my blog – words and music – and I can’t be happier.

In 2010, I think I fought fire with fire and emerged a star.

Welcome 2011, I’m so ready to be number one again and take you on, sweetie darling.

And a very happy new year to all of you, darlings. Hope you have a simple meeting of minds with people who matter when you come undone.


About Bhumika's Boudoir

I love to laugh, and end up being a part of high drama and stormy emotion even when I don't pursue it. Being creative, and communicating with people get me going. I enjoy all the good things in life especially those that are slightly risque, and apologise little, if ever, for all that I do. Literature is a passion and so is music.
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2 Responses to Fire with fire

  1. Marvin Grey says:

    Better than Times Now recap of the year. I would be happy if I finish my post graduation by August this year.

    Wish you lots of tours to warm places across the globe, Grand Prix du roman de l’Académie française, heart breaks (this is life), new loves (also life), house and a fourth husband in 2011.


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